It can be quite tricky to figure out what goes on inside the mind of another person. There isn’t any machine that can read thoughts or a magic algorithm that could decode thinking patterns and give you the low-down on what the girl of your dreams thinks about you.
There are however signs you should look out for before you make a move.
She Asks to Help You in Little Ways
Is that girl asking to help you out at school or work? And did this interaction come out of the blue? If so, there is an excellent chance that the girl likes you.
She might offer to help you out with a project or ask for your help in completing her homework. These are just small ways of spending more time with you.
She’s Caught Staring at You
Staring is a visible indicator that someone likes you. It doesn’t matter if this is intentional or a slip up on her end. She wouldn’t be paying any attention to you at all if she didn’t have the hots for you. When you catch her ‘in the act,’ it’s time to make a move and seize the moment.
Laughing at Your Jokes
Psychologists believe that humor is the one way men can stand out from the crowd and impress most girls. Think of it as a glorified mating call of sorts. Now you don’t have to be an outstanding comedian for girls to laugh at your jokes. You just have to be likable enough for them to laugh at your stupid jokes.
A powerful sign that a girl likes you is when she giggles at your jokes, no matter how childish or unfunny they might be. This means she wants to listen to you and learn more about you. So get her up to speed on your impressive roster of boring jokes, she won’t be disappointed.
She Suddenly Ignores You
So you caught her staring at you a couple of times and all of a sudden she goes back to ignoring you. This might seem a little weird, but when a girl suddenly begins to ignore you means she either really likes you or is starting to fear rejection. She could be avoiding you to save herself from a potential heartbreak.
She Is Interested in Your Hobbies
Another obvious sign that a girl likes you is when she begins to share in your interests and hobbies. For instance, if you like a particular movie, novel, video game, sports or any other activity, she would pretend to share the same feelings when she initially didn’t. These new activities are little excuses for her to spend more time with you.
She Makes Physical Contact
It isn’t easy for shy girls to flirt, but if she really likes you, the girl will try making contact of some kind. She will find a way to touch your arm or back, and the more extrovert ones might go for your chest. The bottom line is that girls don’t touch unlikable guys.
Follows You on Social Media
She makes it a point to check up on you on social media by following your Facebook, Twitter and Instagram feed. It is common for her to ‘like’ your posts and sometimes comment on them in a flirtatious manner. This could be all in good fun, or she might really be doing this to catch your attention. It’s up to you to figure that one out.